When I spoke at last week's Startup Princess retreat, I opened by telling all the other women business owners that I have recently joined their ranks.
I've left "Corporate America" to go out on own. For almost the last 20 years I worked 24/7. My friends and family barely knew me. There simply wasn't time to build relationships, or even take care of the relationships that were dearest to me.
While it seems I now have sacrificed sleeping (I asked the women business owners at the retreat how they sleep at night, not having a steady pay check and sometimes wondering where their next client or sale will be).....but I have gained something even more valuable....time.
My sister is big on birthdays. She says you must always celebrate someone's birthday on that day. She's especially conscientious of single friends who may not have plans. There is nothing worse than your mother calling up and asking you what you are doing for your birthday, and having to say you have no plans.
I recently celebrated two birthdays with dear friends. I made a point to make them feel special. An added bonus was that I felt special, too. One of the best pieces of advice I ever got was......